Week’s Wrap Up

So I have had these three drafts sitting in my blog waiting to get some real meat added to them, in addition to the long upcoming post (Journey in the belt so far pt2), I finally decided that I needed to post something and stop fretting and just do it.

So Floor Friday was fun, I got to feel all subbie like and sit at my Mistress’s feet and look adoringly up at her and blog and swoon (swoon is such a cool word, dontcha think?).

I had been thinking that our texting back and forth Friday was a prelude to some fun play Friday night, but it was not to be so. So I went to bed a little confused and a bit pouty (it had been a hell week and I wanted some play dammit). I know this does not at all sound subbie and I am a bit ashamed writing this – but all in the name of full disclosure and honesty around here – right?

Under the Boot had a similar post this week about a similar feeling he was having, mine was no where near his disappointment, but it definitely put me in a funk the next morning.

I woke up thinking about my dissapointment from the night before, and MrsKeeper picked up on it immediately. I wasn’t pouting as much any more, I just had all these thoughts running through my head and I really was, at that point, just really confused. Finally I got my thoughts straight, and realized that I wasn’t just being pouty for pouty sake, that I had either misunderstood or I had made her angry and this was a form of punishment (clear as it seemed – I was still pretty confused).

We had a good long discussion about what had been bugging me and yes it had been a miscommunication. I felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders and the combination of the relief of talking it out, combined with the relief that she had not been angry with me reduced me to tears.

She held me and let me cry it out, and we talked some more about how important that talk was. We both felt better and went on to have a fun filled day – mostly vanilla – but with a little D/s thrown in here and there (public play can be a lot of fun).

BTW — For those keeping score out there — the first rule of a good relationship is communication. The first rule of a good D/s relationship — is a lot more communication. If you cannot communicate with your partner before you introduce D/s, kink, BDSM, poly or what ever – you will have major problems. We have both been doing BDSM for a while – and we have an awesome marriage – but even for us the communication is a struggle at times – but we do it and that’s what counts.

Sunday was the Super Bowl, and we went to a kinky Super Bowl party. We watched the first quarter, but all through the 2nd and the halftime show I was gettin my ass beat! Hee! Now that was a lot more fun than watching Tom Petty on the screen – and I like Tom Petty.

Didn’t get as many bruises as I did from the first // last time we played (2 weeks ago we got to have our first heavy scene since we switched — I still today have faint bruises on my ass from that one — le sigh), but Mistress made sure that I sat gingerly at work the next day.

Sunday morning btw I also got to have 2, count them 2 orgasms! They were wonderfully intense since it had been a week in chastity since I had had one.

Sunday evening was shower and locked back up. Since then I have been let out once on Wed morning for a shower and a little play – MrsKeeper got in the shower with me and soaped me up and made very sure I was very clean – I was leaking precum for the rest of the morning.

Tonight I won’t get home till late, but since I got everything on my honey-do list from this morning done, she promised I would be let out of the cage for the evening.

Now this could mean I just get to hang free for the evening and locked back up for the night, or it could mean I get teased and denied all night and then locked up, or … well the mind boggles with the possibilities.

I’ll let you know later what happens.

Cheers!